Now why do I say this?
Hi, my name is Rohan Noronha, more popularly known as Satin across all my social networking sites.
I am a thirty three year old, self-confident man from India.
Today I would like to share a part of my life with you: A part which taught me how to spread love even in the darkest of times.
Recently I had a very terrible break-up with my soul mate, and I really don’t know if we are meant to be or not, only time will tell. It is natural to think that after a break-up we would both harbour ill-feelings and resentment against one another. I don’t know about my soul mate, but for me I choose to send out only love. Why would I do this? Because I believe that love conquers all.
I don't like to judge or assume anything, yet friends told me that my soul mate was a hypocrite; A "rotten apple". I am grateful for my friends who stood by me through my loss of my soul mate, especially when their words counselled and healed my emotional upheaval. Yet is this enough to erase all wounds?
I would say write back to the one who you think has hurt you, cheated on you or lied to you. Let them know what you are going through, let them know how you feel, but do it with words and thoughts of love.
In loss, there is always a battle from within, and human grieving is to not treat the "crime" with as much offence as a community would treat a criminal. Why throw that "rotten apple" into the bin? Instead, why not take it to fertile soil, where it has the opportunity of germinating with the earth: Where is has the opportunity to provide fodder for the organism of life. Isn't that a better way to make the "rotten apple" feel worthiness? Isn't that a better way to let go of your soul mate with love?
Letting go of what you love with love, helps to prove that love conquers all. So, if you are reading this, know that you can get back to the people in your life who came and went, left you feeling hurt, sad, deprived and depressed, by using your own magical love from within to change it all.
Two things happen when using love to let go.
1. You smile and love and they get annoyed and leave you alone;
2. You smile and love and they melt into realising their mistakes and the patch up is done.
Using love to let go is a win-win situation because when love overpowers negative feelings, believe me nothing can shatter you down.
If your soul mate isn't willing to communicate with you in any form or manner, use love to give them time and space. Turn to love to renew your own time and space in reflective contemplation and meditation of a past when the two of you would embrace, hug, love, make love or go crazy from seeing one another. Reflect on that and keep adding love
fuel to make your feelings of renewal more powerful. When you turn powerful love thoughts into positive memories of a loving past, you are not only worthy of love, you become love.
Who knows, that same person might come back to you, if it is meant to be.
So my friends, before judging and evaluating an upsetting loss of a soul mate, remember the "rotten apple" can be given the opportunity of renewal through love by using your own magical love, because love conquers all.
Love and Blessings.